{"id":4391,"date":"2017-01-23T16:27:51","date_gmt":"2017-01-23T16:27:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quicktoptens.com\/?p=4391"},"modified":"2017-01-23T16:27:51","modified_gmt":"2017-01-23T16:27:51","slug":"lesbian-flirting-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/top-tens\/lifestyle\/lesbian-flirting-tips","title":{"rendered":"10 Tips On How To Flirt With A Lesbian &#8211; From Awkward To Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Flirting with the lesbian can be awkward at the beginning\u00a0and it can also be quite difficult if you don&#8217;t know how to do it. For many women, trying to flirt with a lesbian can be a little challenging. However, that\u2019s why we\u2019re here to give you 10 lesbian flirting tips that will tell you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt.com\/blog\/2016\/04\/20\/how-to-flirt-with-a-lesbian\/\">how to flirt with a lesbian<\/a> and get her number. So, let\u2019s dive right on in!<!--more--><\/p>\n<div id=\"toc_container\" class=\"toc_light_blue no_bullets\"><p class=\"toc_title\">Table of Contents<\/p><ul class=\"toc_list\"><li><a href=\"#10-Tips-On-How-To-Flirt-With-A-Lesbian\">10 Tips On How To Flirt With A Lesbian<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#1-Make-Eye-Contact\">1. Make Eye Contact<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#2-Gentle-Un-Offensive-Touches\">2. Gentle, Un-Offensive Touches<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#3-Shower-Her-With-Compliments\">3. Shower Her With Compliments<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#4-Be-Willing-To-Laugh\">4. Be Willing To Laugh<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#5-Have-Positive-Attitude\">5. Have Positive Attitude<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#6-Be-Open-And-Honest\">6. Be Open And Honest<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#7-Relax-and-Breathe\">7. Relax and Breathe<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#8-Be-Mindful-Of-Body-Language\">8. Be Mindful Of Body Language<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#9-Dont-Forget-To-Smile\">9. Don\u2019t Forget To Smile<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#10-Ask-Her-Questions-about-Herself\">10. Ask Her Questions about Herself<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span id=\"10-Tips-On-How-To-Flirt-With-A-Lesbian\">10 Tips On How To Flirt With A Lesbian<\/span><\/h3>\n<h4><span id=\"1-Make-Eye-Contact\">1. Make Eye Contact<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thestar.com\/content\/dam\/thestar\/entertainment\/2008\/11\/21\/i_cant_think_straight_nothing_subtle_about_this_script\/i_cant_thinkstraight.jpeg.size.custom.crop.1086x584.jpg\" width=\"1086\" height=\"584\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is probably the most important lesbian flirting tips, ever. If you ask anyone, gay, straight, or bi, they will tell you that if you want to start flirting with <em>anyone<\/em>, you have to be bold enough to <strong>make eye contact first!<\/strong> Always be sure to make eye contact.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean stare at them until they get creeped out but glance at her once in a while. If she catches you looking at her, <strong>give her a quick smile while establishing eye contact.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"2-Gentle-Un-Offensive-Touches\"><strong>2. Gentle, Un-Offensive Touches<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/gayweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/fpss.png\" width=\"671\" height=\"352\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trying to flirt with a woman, <strong>don\u2019t hesitate to touch her lightly.<\/strong> This can be something as subtle as touching knees if you\u2019re sitting next to each other. If you\u2019re talking with one another, when you\u2019re making important points, touch her arm lightly.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re bold, <strong>twirl her hair<\/strong> or <strong>move a few stray strands from her face.<\/strong> These are small gestures, but they\u2019ll get her attention, for sure.<\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"3-Shower-Her-With-Compliments\">3. Shower Her With Compliments<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4395\" src=\"http:\/\/quicktoptens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbian-Flirting-Tips3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"412\" srcset=\"http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbian-Flirting-Tips3.jpg 620w, http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbian-Flirting-Tips3-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbian-Flirting-Tips3-300x199@2x.jpg 600w, http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbian-Flirting-Tips3-400x266.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Women love compliments, you should know that! If you want to know how to flirt with a lesbian, don\u2019t be afraid to <strong>give her a compliment or two (or three!). <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Just make sure that they are genuine and truthful. You don\u2019t want to tell her that she is a wonderful storyteller when she clearly isn\u2019t. Complimenting doesn\u2019t mean telling white lies to make her feel good.<\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"4-Be-Willing-To-Laugh\"><strong>4. Be Willing To Laugh<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4394\" src=\"http:\/\/quicktoptens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbians-Flirting-laughing.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"384\" srcset=\"http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbians-Flirting-laughing.jpg 768w, http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbians-Flirting-laughing-300x150.jpg 300w, http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbians-Flirting-laughing-300x150@2x.jpg 600w, http:\/\/wp68.hostgator.com\/~wadobs0ab4ty\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Lesbians-Flirting-laughing-400x200.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Women love people who can make them laugh, regardless of gender. If you\u2019re trying to get on a lesbian\u2019s good side and flirt, you\u2019ve got to have a great sense of humor and be willing to laugh.<\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"5-Have-Positive-Attitude\"><strong>5. Have Positive Attitude<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lesbiannews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/lesbian-style-flirting.jpg\" alt=\"having positive attitude - lesbian flirting tips\" width=\"760\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do in life, you have to have a positive attitude about it. When you approach something, especially something as challenging as flirting, you need to show the person you\u2019re trying to flirt with that you\u2019re <strong>confident, positive, and you\u2019re a great person. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If the woman picks up on any sort of hesitation or negativity, you\u2019re not doing a good job. <strong>Be positive, and the women will be falling at your feet (figuratively, of course).<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"6-Be-Open-And-Honest\"><strong>6. Be Open And Honest<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/images.huffingtonpost.com\/2015-11-16-1447707403-2552313-Screenshot20151116at2.55.21PM-thumb.png\" width=\"570\" height=\"554\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know how you like <strong>honesty and open communication?<\/strong> Well, you aren\u2019t some rare unicorn because you like these qualities \u2014 all women like them!<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trying to flirt with a lesbian, you don\u2019t have to do anything special or make up complicated backstories that are more fiction than fact. Just be yourself and be honest. This is again one of the best lesbian flirting tips. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"7-Relax-and-Breathe\"><strong>7. Relax and Breathe<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.azizilaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/iStock_000020966315_Large.jpg\" width=\"2716\" height=\"1810\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We understand that flirting can cause some anxiety but relax! When you go up to flirt with a lady, and you\u2019re nervous, she can pick up on that.<\/p>\n<p>You know, chances are she may be as nervous as you are! So do yourselves a favor and <strong>take a deep breath and relax a little.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"8-Be-Mindful-Of-Body-Language\"><strong>8. Be Mindful Of Body Language<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/vignette4.wikia.nocookie.net\/greysanatomy\/images\/4\/48\/4x13-2.jpg\/revision\/latest?cb=20140825154703\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1052\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re talking to your crush, check out her body language. If she isn\u2019t paying attention to you, if she\u2019s not smiling, or if her eyes wander, you\u2019re losing her. Pick up on these cues and alter the conversation so that you grab her interest again.<\/p>\n<p>Also, when you\u2019re checking her body language to gauge if you\u2019re winning her over or striking out, you have to be mindful of your own body language too.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, just the way you\u2019re standing can be a signal to someone that you aren\u2019t really interested, or you\u2019d rather be somewhere else \u2014 even if that\u2019s not how you\u2019re really feeling. <strong>Keep your body pointed toward her, don\u2019t cross your arms, and remember to make eye contact.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"9-Dont-Forget-To-Smile\"><strong>9. Don\u2019t Forget To Smile<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/studybreaks.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/huff-post-1.jpg\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1000\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, all you need is a great smile! When you show your lovely smile and stunning pearly whites, you look more <strong>approachable, confident, and someone people want to get to know. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you <strong>flash a genuine smile (with teeth),<\/strong> she\u2019s going to take notice and be more willing to flirt back!<\/p>\n<h4><span id=\"10-Ask-Her-Questions-about-Herself\"><strong>10. Ask Her Questions about Herself<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/i.telegraph.co.uk\/multimedia\/archive\/01933\/texts_1933318b.jpg\" alt=\"lesbian flirting tips\" width=\"620\" height=\"388\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re flirting with someone, you\u2019re going to want to ask her questions about herself; how else are you going to learn more about her and see if she\u2019s really someone you want to date? Avoid asking simple questions that could be answered in <strong>one or two words.<\/strong> Stick to open-ended questions that encourage a dialogue. <strong>These are the best way to learn about each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Although there are many other lesbian flirting tips and techniques, you could use when learning how to flirt with a lesbian, but these are the <strong>top 10 tried and true tips offered by other lesbians.<\/strong> If there\u2019s a tip that works for you that isn\u2019t included on this list, leave a comment below and let us know!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Flirting with the lesbian can be awkward at the beginning\u00a0and it can also be quite difficult if you don&#8217;t know how to do it. For many women, trying to flirt with a lesbian can be a little challenging. 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